This blog is an account of my journey with BDSM, particularily M/s relationships, and is based through my opinions and experiences. I suggest reading from the back foward, as i refer back to many things.

Any advice here can be fitting to any D/s relationship, just replace Master with any other description you prefer.





Sunday, March 14, 2010

First Play Party

The first play party was AMAZING! I had an awesome time. The play party was a learning party, and though we already knew what was presented, it was good to have it through the community. We had an introduction to dungeon etiqutte, how to ask people to scene with you, negotiation (which was a very helpful presentation, and extrememly important in my veiw), and a few other basic BDSM ideas. We mingled, and had some snacks as they started preparing for demos.

We started out at the flogging demo. There was a Saint Andrews cross the bottom was bracing herslef on. I have been flogged before, and Master had flogged others (and me for a very short time) before. After the demo was completed and a few people were taking turns trying it out for themselves with the demo bottom. One of the demo Tops asked if anyone else would like to try, and no one rose to it, and Master asked if i could bottom. She said yes, and prepared for me to be flogged. Master whispered in my ear to remove my dress. The two demo Tops asked which one of them i would like to flog me, i said i had no preferance as i did not have knowledge of their differences, as i slipped off the straps of my dress. The main demo-er stepped up. Master told me again, more forcefully, to remove my dress. I dropped it off my body. It puddled on the floor, and i stood there in my collar, black lacy underwear, ad black high heels. The crowd all made sounds of approval, and the embarrassment i felt was amazing.

i stood by the cross, and braced myself on it. she warmed me up by patting harder and harder on my upper back. After a bit, she moved on to floggers. The pleasure and pain were amazing. She want up to a harder hitting flogger to get me to ~7 of pain. after a bit longer, it got a little more intense, and i said it was at an 8 right when she asked if it was going up in pain at all. She then stopped, i put my clothes back on, and Master cuddled and loved on me, got me some water, and sat me down in the next room, where the spanking demo was going on.

The spanking demo was very hot as well. By the time i got there, his poor little butt was super red. There was a spanking bench that he was bent over. I was itching to get on that bench, but the spanking demo was, apparently, going to be a very long one. I mentioned to Master that i wanted my butt to be that red.

After a while, we went to see the bondage demo. This didn't do too much for me, i suppose i was more in the mood for pain related-ness. I needed to use the restroom, and asked Master if i could go. He said yes. I started heading toward the bathroom, but stopped and asked him which i should use. There were two-the one i headed towards in the begining, and the one connected to the bondage room, which did not have a door. He told me to use the doorless one. This was yet another, slightly humiliating experience.

We then wandered around a bit more, and the spanking bench was taken by another couple. The flogging room had moved on to cropping, and Master yet again offered me up, for my butt and the cropper, without warm up. I removed my dress again, Master stood on the other side of the cross to kiss on me and watch my reactions, and pain commenced, through the same woman as before. I did not really like the little rubber flogger; it was quite stingy, and i definately prefer thuddy. She moved on to a cat paw crop. The pain continued, almost unbearably, but i managed to continue for the pleasure of the crowd, Master, and the Top, who were all talking about my squirming, gasping, ans little shrieks of pleasure/pain. She asked if she could do two more, very hard ones to finish. They did not seem more hard than the others.

Master also asked if we could have a rope flogger used on me, as i had been tinking about making one. It had a very wide range of sensations, but was not as pleasurable, for me, as the other floggers. I almost hit sub-space, but Master pulled me out of it, just as i was about to go under, which kind of made me depressed; i have been hoping to get into subspace for a long time.

We thanked our hosts, and the demo leaders, and left about thirty minutes early, as it was a little far to go and i was needing quite a bit of loving care from Master. The play party was amazingly fun. I would hightly suggest anyone who hasn't gone to onw to go, especially before entering a Master/slave relationship, especially if you can go to one aimed towards new people.

1 comment:

  1. That sounds really fun id love to go and watch one sometime :)

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